Apparently our words could account for as little as 3% of what we communicate to others. All the rest comes from non-verbal signals, such as how we sound (the quality of our voice, the inflections we use, etc.), our body language and also our appearance.
Obviously the information you are giving to the class needs to be heard, and we have already discussed strategies for how to do that effectively. Now we are going to tap into the potential of the sound of your voice, to give you a very powerful way to get your message across in addition to what you’re saying.
We’ve all been in situations where we’ve had to listen to a person with a really monotonous voice. (The word ‘monotonous’ actually means ‘on one note’.) It doesn’t take long before you switch off and stop listening to what they’re saying, however fascinating the subject.
A good speaker uses many variations in the pitch of their voice: they use a lot of notes. Put another way, their voice has a lot of music in it. Think of the Italians with their naturally musical language, and how attractive they are to listen to, even when speaking English.
In this section you will learn how to put that ‘magic music’ into your voice.
Try this: Say ‘I’d love a cup of coffee’, making the ‘o’ in ‘love’ as long as possible. Now say the same phrase but making the ‘o’ in ‘love’ short and the ‘l’ and ‘v’ as long as possible. It’s not difficult to see which version gives you the greater possibility for putting music and meaning into the word ‘love’.
Many people have a tendency to ‘clip’ the vowels very short when speaking, but that loses the music in the voice – and, as you discovered in Exercise 7 on speaking slower, makes it more difficult for others to understand what is being said.
So although you need clear consonants and good articulation to be understood, you also need to linger long enough on the vowels to allow the pitch variations that make you interesting to listen to, as well as to regulate your talking speed.
To sum up:
Q: Why is it that what you sound like can be more important than what you say?
Apparently our words could account for as little as 3% of what we communicate to others. All the rest comes from non-verbal signals, such as how we sound (the quality of our voice, the inflections we use, etc.), our body language and also our appearance.
Obviously the information you are giving to the class needs to be heard, and we have already discussed strategies for how to do that effectively. Now we are going to tap into the potential of the sound of your voice, to give you a very powerful way to get your message across in addition to what you’re saying.
We’ve all been in situations where we’ve had to listen to a person with a really monotonous voice. (The word ‘monotonous’ actually means ‘on one note’.) It doesn’t take long before you switch off and stop listening to what they’re saying, however fascinating the subject.
A good speaker uses many variations in the pitch of their voice: they use a lot of notes. Put another way, their voice has a lot of music in it. Think of the Italians with their naturally musical language, and how attractive they are to listen to, even when speaking English.
In this section you will learn how to put that ‘magic music’ into your voice.
Try this: Say ‘I’d love a cup of coffee’, making the ‘o’ in ‘love’ as long as possible. Now say the same phrase but making the ‘o’ in ‘love’ short and the ‘l’ and ‘v’ as long as possible. It’s not difficult to see which version gives you the greater possibility for putting music and meaning into the word ‘love’.
Many people have a tendency to ‘clip’ the vowels very short when speaking, but that loses the music in the voice – and, as you discovered in Exercise 7 on speaking slower, makes it more difficult for others to understand what is being said.
So although you need clear consonants and good articulation to be understood, you also need to linger long enough on the vowels to allow the pitch variations that make you interesting to listen to, as well as to regulate your talking speed.
To sum up:
Q: Why is it that what you sound like can be more important than what you say?
